Monday, June 10, 2013

Day 3, New Friends.

Meeting new people from other parts of the world, with different culture, ethnicity and race, can be quite interesting. Various styles of thinking, attitude and responses are showed by them. Their experiences of growing up in their own unique community differ from one another. But ever since the world has been globalised, information and knowledge of our brothers and sisters in humanity anywhere around the globe are very much accessible; making it easier for us to appreciate God’s purpose of creating mankind with so many differences; to know one another (Al-Quran 49:13).

We live in a dormitory house with another two guys who are completing their courses here. One is a Nigerian Christian brother, whose life experiences made me awed, the other is an African American Muslim Brother from Philadelphia who have been here since 2009.

For the past three days, I find that our exchanges and conversations are unlike the usual ones we had back home. They talked a lot about American histories, public figures that I personally have no interest in. Why should I? Although this does not sound right, but I feel just find not being able to join these conversations.

However, what the Nigerian brother shared was something else. His real life experience was simply amazing. I could not imagine myself being in his shoes, surviving all those challenges he faced in life. He shared about his tribes, language and the political conflicts that caused chaos and have probably taken thousands of lives.

His grandfather was an Amir who lives in the Northern part of majority Muslim Nigeria. He was born Christian as his father converted to Christianity and somehow rather survived the ‘Shariah Law’ of elimination for apostasy. He served the air force for 23 years and clearly saw how his community struggled. His tribe, the Hausa people controlled the government and economy of the country. Although they are Muslims, political leaders used religion for their own gains by making use of the officially salaried ulama' (religious scholars) to support their agenda. The oil from the south was taken and the wealth were not being distributed to their own people fairly. The poor had nothing while the rich and powerful enjoy spending their fortune elsewhere.

Although he is from that governing powerful tribe, he was left aside not enjoying together with his people just because of having a different faith. But luckily he sees thru it all. He still fights for righteousness, showing himself on television, creating awareness for the youths to vote for credible leaders and not only based on tribes or religion. In 2011, his whole house was burnt by those very Muslims. He was a threat to them. But he did not care and continue to speak the truth.

Now that he is here, studying Islam, he sees now the different Muslims from around the world. There is a Muslim brother who helped him get a new home for his family, even giving him $10,000 to refurbish it. Had he not come here, studying Islam and meeting other Muslims, I am sure that his hatred for all Muslims would still be there.

Comparing myself with what he had gone thru, how little have I suffered? And yet how grateful have I been to my Creator? Somehow rather, this episode opened my eyes a little how important interfaith dialogue is. But I am still doubtful of its importance back home.

Wallahualam.