Anger

Salam...

Bored. Nothing to do. No, so many things to do actually, but I don't feel like doing. I was attacked by fever and flu, again. Feeling a bit better now though...

I've been thinking a lot lately on emotions. I've seen a lot of too emotional people, specifically woman. New born babies, boy or girl, they would cry almost the same amount of time. But after puberty, women cry four times as much as men. It's not about the number of cries, I am more concerned in how women would manage themselves in difficult situations.

I may not understand them fully because I am not in their shoes. But these past years experience with friends, family and loved ones made me realized how dangerous it can be if one becomes too emotional. It really affects people around them. They tend to take things too seriously, too deeply, end up hurting themselves. Sometimes over irrelevant things. Why? I'm not saying it's not ok to be sad. It's just that why should they drag their grief for days, even weeks? I rarely see this in men. Well of course there are some.

I must say, I can't stand over-emotional people, with exception of course. Especially with my recent experience with someone. It really bothers me. Just remember, there's always Allah for you to turn to. Be happy and enjoy life as much as you can. Why stay in pain when you can just let it go and forget about it? Why sit still and let yourself hurt when you can find a solution for it? Why give up and lose everything when you can work something out? It is just unacceptable. It's easy for me to say? Yes. You'll have to try for yourself in order to find out. It's not that I've not experienced any pain. I've been there, dozen of times. Be it physical or emotional pain. Just be strong and Alhamdulillah everything will move along just fine. Just don't give up.

Stop saying that you're not strong enough. Stop saying that you are weak. Believe in yourself. Believe in Allah. Because He won't give us what we can't handle. Have faith for God's sake! And seriously, stop giving up! Always, always find a way out. There must be one, there will be one. And if you can't find one, ask for one. He'll show you.. InsyaAllah.